This week it came to light that when Lena Dunham was 7 years old, she looked at her little sister's vagina, and an alarming number of people have dubbed her a "child molester. I'm shaking my head in disbelief as I write because I can't believe that such innocuous things have become the subject of so much vitriol. If I had a penny for all of the sexual organs I looked at as a child, I'd be rich. OK, maybe I'd only have an extra ten or so dollars, but you know what I mean.
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Make sure your nails are short. Although I feel like this should be an obvious part of properly fingering a woman, I realize in the heat of the moment not everyone looks down and examines their fingernail length. Which brings us to…. Wash your damn hands. Are you kidding me? Do you know how much bacteria you just unloaded into her precious vagina? Use lube. I firmly believe in all sex-related scenarios lube is one of the most important components. It makes both vaginal and anal intercourse more pleasurable, it makes giving a blowjob easier and receiving it more delicious, and it definitely makes fingering a woman a lot more exciting for you both.
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She dressed us exactly the same, usually in homemade striped get-ups that resembled old-school prison uniforms. My mother sighed. She had gotten this question before. My grandfather quickly put an end to my research before summoning my mother to give me a little talk. Let me just say here that, if anyone tries to spin this into an incest or sexual abuse thing like what happened with Lena Dunham, I swear to God I will write a strongly worded op-ed about you for a campus publication, and we all know NOBODY likes reading those. Little kids do weird shit, OK?! My mother wrapped 2-year-old me in my favorite Powerpuff Girl towel and pulled me to the other side of the bathroom. Parents, for the love of positive body image, please teach your children the correct terminology for their genitals. Seuss fashion. I paused in narrow-eyed contemplation, determining whether to believe her.
Finger banging is an underrated art. When done right, it's incredibly hot. But whether you're new to sex or an unofficial vagina expert, fingering can be incredibly intimidating — everyone has different preferences, and hey, anatomy is complicated. They say sex is like pizza: When it's bad, it's still good. We beg to differ, especially when it comes to sex with your hands. For the most part, dry, fast, and furious fingering does not feel pleasant. But wet, built-up, and conscious use of hands on pussy? Oh yeah.
