Whether you've been together for two years or sixteen, you know how important passion is in your relationship. But did you know how important sex fantasies are in having a happy relationship? Being able to communicate your desires to your partner, keep things new, and add imagination to sex will do wonders for you — both in the bedroom and in life. And you're not alone. And according to a study conducted at the University of Granada , "women have pleasant romantic fantasies more frequently than men — a few times a month. Men, however, fantasize more frequently about sexcapades involving 'being promiscuous,' 'being a swinger,' and 'participating in an orgy. But don't let these preferences hold you back; there are tons of sex fantasies to try with your significant other.

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As a matter of fact, older relationships can actually have much better, more fulfilling sex lives. When sex starts to get monotonous over time, all it needs is a little spark to ignite the sexual passion and ecstasy you shared at the beginning. Are you having a hard time getting wet or hard down there? Getting kinky in bed can mean different things for different people. What can seem explosive to one couple could seem tame and boring to others. So we decided to come up with the top 50 kinky ideas for all lovers, be it the new ones or the seasoned professionals of lovemaking. A kinky veteran? Try it, you may just like something with a twist. Or watch someone else having sex.
There should always be something new or exciting happening behind your bedroom doors. Here are 13 kinky challenges that will definitely spice up your sex life. If kissing is getting a bit boring, why not try something new? Take an ice cube and put it in your mouth. Then go and kiss your guy and pass the ice cube onto him. The hot and cold sensation will turn both of you on more than regular making out does! Make it a point to play a new kinky game every night.
Listen, having a sex routine isn't bad. But it is important to mix things up every once in awhile to help you learn and explore what you enjoy. Play these games that'll make you concentrate on the journey , resulting in a final act that's especially fun.